John Primrose
John Primrose of Iroquois died
at the Ottawa Civic Hospital on March 24, 2003, at the age of
89.
He was born in Glasgow, Scotland in 1913 and lost his mother shortly
after birth. He spent much of his early life living with relatives
before settling into the Quarrier Home in Bridge of Weir. He often
reflected on how his time at the Quarrier Home gave him the guidance
and rules that he lived by for the balance of his life, and which
he passed on to his children. He had planned to take a trip to
Scotland in the coming year, which was to include a visit to the
Quarrier homes where he intended to pay his respects in the form
of a donation to the establishment.
At 14 years of age, he was given the opportunity to travel to
Canada and start a new life, so he left behind everything that
was familiar to him and immigrated to Canada. He arrived in Canada
in 1928 and settled in the Lanark, White Lake area of Ontario.
He spent the early part of his years working for farmers. It was
at one of these farms he met his future wife, Cora Helmer. In
1939, at 25 years of age, he and Cora were married and moved to
Toronto. It was there they started their family which would eventually
grow to include three daughters and three sons.
During the Second World War, he enlisted in the navy to help defend
the country he had accepted as his homeland. At the end of the
war, with a family then of one daughter and three sons, he moved
to a farm on the third concession, just north of Iroquois. This
would become the base for the Primrose family over the next 54
years.
Part of growing up on the third concession included an outdoor
rink. He contributed a five-acre parcel of land for this purpose,
and the rink became a mainstay of the community during the long
winter months.
Mr. Primrose was a man who his neighbors on the third concession
could always count on to help at harvest time. He was not a highly
educated person, but the farm did not seem to offer enough challenge
for him, so through on-the-job training and studying in the evenings,
he became a stationary engineer. Throughout his professional career,
he worked many years at Caldwell Linen Mill, and various plants
in Brockville, before settling into Liquid Carbonic in Maitland
where he spent his final 20 years of employment.
He retired from work in 1980 and spent the bulk of his time following
retirement visiting his many children and grandchildren. After
the death of his wife Cora, he moved to the seniors home in Iroquois
where he become an active citizen. He became involved in local
card games, the church and other activities about town.
He was a loyal Scotsman to the end and he loved to listen to Scottish
music. He always kept up to date on current events. He loved political
discussion, and he always had a strong opinion. He also had a
lighter side and loved a good story. And he looked forward to
the teasing he received from his daughters-in-law. He spent the
final days for his life surrounded by his six children and many
of his grandchildren, a reflection on how he was held in such
high esteem by each and every member of his family.
He is survived by children Lottie (Geert) Grootjans of Oakville;
John Jr. (Colleen) of Liverpool, Nova Scotia; Jim (Sandra) of
Iroquois; Darcy (Marnie) of Prescott; Joan (Gary) Murphy of Burlington;
and Helen McIntosh (Paul Judd) of Mississauga. He will be fondly
remembered by eight grandchildren and three step-grandchildren.
Friends called at the Marsden and McLaughlin Funeral Home in Iroquois
on March 26. The funeral service was held at the funeral home
on March 27, with Rev. Doug Carnegie officiating. Interment will
be held at Iroquois Point Presbyterian Cemetery later in the spring.
Donations to the Quarrier Home would be appreciated by the family.